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Communication is necessary for any healthy relationship, and in an interracial relationship it’s paramount.

Every white man I’ve dated has, sometimes consciously and sometimes not, asked me to explain to them some aspect of blackness.

And too many times, those same white boyfriends decided to sit out being my partner.

I lost count of the times my boyfriend in my late 20s would tell me to “just leave” parties or social events when I complained of being the only person of color in his all-white friend group.

Since Trump was elected, I’ve felt paradoxically alienated by white people finding or doubling down on their commitment to change.

Somehow their politicization has begun to seem cartoonish, filled with performance and self-congratulation. But it wasn’t only on election night that translating experience felt so fraught.

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While I tried to explain to this man why what he was saying was offensive, my boyfriend stood there in silence.During a bathroom break or a trip to the bar, I’ll check my phone, and almost always there is a news alert telling me Donald Trump is attempting to curtail, or has just succeeded in curtailing, the rights of marginalized people in America.

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